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The reason for Memorial Day Weekend

Why we remember and honor Memorial Day Weekend is more than just about picnics, parties, decorations, food and red, white and blue. I’ll tell you more. #memorialday #memeorialdayweekend #soldiers #military

WHY do we have Memorial Day?

Is Memorial Day just a weekend to watch parades, get together to eat food, take the kids to play at parks, or simply have a vacation from work?

It is a national holiday, so there should to be a good reason behind it- right?

And while we are on the subject, is there much of a difference between Memorial Day and Veteran’s Day?

If you have ever wondered about these questions and more, I have some other interesting information for you so you can understand the significance and magnitude this day represents. Please teach and help others understand how precious our freedoms are, and how others have sacrificed for us to have them. That is how we maintain our liberty, otherwise it is easily lost.



Did you realize that there IS a marked difference in Memorial Day and Veteran’s Day?

Memorial Day is set aside to honor all in the military personal who sustained wounds while fighting for our country, and died as a result from injuries.

Veterans Day is a time to remember and honor everyone who has served honorably, at any time of our country’s history, whether it be war or peace time.

Now,  lets talk about the Flag. Do you know HOW it’s supposed to be raised and lowered?

Here is the correct way: 

Flag Observance

On Memorial Day, the flag of the United States is raised briskly to the top of the staff and then solemnly lowered to the half-staff position, where it remains only until noon. It is then raised to full-staff for the remainder of the day.

The half-staff position remembers the more than one million men and women who gave their lives in service of their country.

At noon, their memory is raised by the living, who resolve not to let their sacrifice be in vain, but to rise up in their stead and continue the fight for liberty and justice for all.

When did Memorial Day become a National Holiday?

Memorandum to the nation on May 2, 2000

As Memorial Day approaches, it is time to pause and consider the  true meaning of this holiday. Memorial Day represents one day of national awareness and reverence, honoring those Americans who died while defending our Nation and its values. While we should honor these heroes every day for the profound contribution they have made to securing our Nation’s freedom, we should honor them especially on Memorial Day. In this time of unprecedented success and prosperity throughout our land, I ask that all Americans come together to recognize how fortunate we are to live in freedom and to observe a universal “National Moment of Remembrance” on each Memorial Day.

This memorial observance represents a simple and unifying way to commemorate our history and honor the struggle to protect our freedoms.

A few ideas of how to celebrate this holiday’s true meaning:

Read a story of history about a battle for our freedom Watch a documentary about a leader, or a war, that was vital for our life today Visit graves of deceased soldiers Say a prayer for our soldiers and military serving us today Provide or organize a project for “Adopt A Soldier”. Click HERE for information.

At 3pm, your local time, is the official time to observe a moment of silence, or the playing of “Taps” We are incredibly blessed as a people, and nation, to live in a country of opportunities and independence.

Freedom always comes at a cost someone paid the price. As we celebrate this day, may we pause to recognize, appreciate and say a prayer of gratitude for those who have valiantly sacrificed, to allow us the liberties we enjoy today as citizens of this great nation. What a wonderful day to remember this great gift, and ponder ways we can live to improve life for all.  

For an beautiful and quick outdoor cemetery DIY grave decoration, that can also be a door wreath, click HERE.  

On this post there is also information on how to easily clean a grave marker. 

DIY Memorial Grave Decoration

DIY Memorial Grave Decoration










Copyright Carrie Groneman, A Mother’s Shadow, 2014, 2018

Recognize a blessing and be a blessing today.


  • Carrie,

    I love this ideas on how to celebrate Memorial Day in ways to remember our Veterans. I am so sentimental and get choked up when thinking about all the people who died for me to have freedom. I love to take me family to visit a Veterans memorial. Memorial Day is a great day to visit a Veterans graves. I love the ideas that you were cleaning up a grave.

    Have a Wonderful Memorial Day!
    Diane Roark

  • Beautiful ways to observe and will say that I know most of the facts, but thank you again for sharing. Hoping you too are enjoying your holiday today 🙂

  • Lovely Carrie, Thank you for explaining the meaning of Memorial Day so well and how we might celebrate it with meaning and purpose.



  • Crystelle says:

    I am grateful for the young boys who came to Europe to provide freedom for my parents (who were young at the time) and their families……. This holiday really touches me deeply….. 🙂
    hugs x, Crystelle
    Crystelle Boutique

  • Tasha says:

    This was an interesting read, I wasn’t aware of the flag etiquette, so-to-speak…but it is important to know so that we don’t make the mistake of displaying it incorrectly. I will definitely take notice this year!

    • Isn’t it amazing all the little details that go into the flag etiquette Tasha? I had no idea until my sons were in Boy Scouts and I became involved there; that’s where I really learned so much about it. Glad you stopped by!

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